It’s important to us at JFB Duluth that we never find ourselves gathering together as mere acquaintances at some type of empty, shallow social club. The church, and this church specifically, is designed by God to be much more than that. The Bible tells us in Hebrews 10:25 to not forsake gathering together. I am convinced this is meant to be much more than a command to have records showing our perfect attendance. Attending weekly church services without a depth of relationship and commitment and involvement will not be enough to fulfill what God is asking for in that verse. In fact, the verse prior says we are to consider how to spur one another to love and good deeds. (Hebrews 10:24)
Getting to Know One Another
It’s clear all throughout scripture that God is greatly concerned with the way we interact with one another as believers. God says that above all we are to love one another. We are to willingly offer hospitality to one another. We should use our gifts to serve one another. (1 Peter 4:8-10) The Bible says we are to be unified. (Ephesians 4:3) Christians offer real accountability and say the hard things that need to be said out of love and compassion. (Proverbs 27:6) We are to be faithful in prayer for one another. (Romans 12:12) If we are going to do this for one another it will necessitate more than simple attendance. We need to spend time with one another and get to know each other. We will spend time hearing about what God has done and is doing in on another’s lives. Real Christian fellowship goes far beyond the surface level conversations that suffice for worldly friendships.
Women’s Bible Study and Men’s Breakfast
Knowing God’s desire for us to involve ourselves in each other’s lives, we seek to do what we can to encourage that to happen. A couple of weeks ago the women of the church got together to have a Bible study where they discussed the tendency many have to make friendship a selfish endeavor, and how to instead pursue a Biblical idea of friendship. These nights the women get together have been full of good food and great discussion. The highs and lows that are experienced when following God are able to be discussed. It allows for an opportunity to come together, open up, and actively participate in all of the things scripture tells us should be part of a gathering of believers.
On the same day, the men of the church started their day early by sharing a meal together as well. A couple of us came down to the church to cook breakfast and brew coffee, giving us a chance to truly serve one another and offer hospitality as the Bible says. Then all of the men of the church stopped in for breakfast on their commute to work. We were able to start the day focusing on God and His plan for the day. We were also able to obey scripture by spending time praying for each person on their way out the door for God’s blessing and direction for the day ahead and whatever else God was doing in their lives.
5th Wednesday of May
The last Wednesday of May we took a break from our regular routine of gathering at the church and headed over to a local park where we spent the evening grilling out, playing yard games, and just enjoying each other’s company. God blessed us with a great night and perfect weather. It was a good opportunity to step back from the busyness that comes along with church and be reminded of the privilege it is to be part of a church like ours (even if our frisbee skills need some work).
Stay Engaged
I can say without a doubt that I have found deeper friendships in this church than I have experienced elsewhere. Getting to be involved with all of you is a great joy in my life. My life is enriched by being a part of this fellowship and no doubt many of you can say the same. Remember that. Because, if you are a part of this church there will be times when people’s involvement is unwanted. You will have times when instead of embracing the fellowship and accountability that is offered, you will instead desire to run and hide. Remember that it truly is a privilege and joy to be engaged in the calling of God with one another.
Pastor Jesse
